> [!note]- This is my disclosure regarding the failings of my family, our parents. > This page compresses a tragedy. >[!warning] I've got this handled. >- The horror is long gone. And the difficultly has been mitigated by time. >- I make plans. >- My plan is presently balanced. >- There are stable paths for both advance & retreat. > >And since 27/06/2023 no plans require the possibility of more lies. > [!bug] In Curt Brutality > My parents are incapable of ethical self-direction. They are also both senile. My father, slipping quickly away since the turn of the millennium. And my mother, since some time much more recently which I did not begin to notice until the pressures of the our post 2020 pandemic world made it clear. > > I, Shane Andersen, will extremely minimize all interaction with them, until such time as they provide to me an *Irrevocable* and *Enduring* Power of Attorney, for each of them. > > As for my in-laws, sadly they are fools, requiring atonement. My mother-in-law must stop drinking, and my father-in-law must stop being a coward. > > My responsibilities and my judgement preclude any other options. > > I wish to never speak of this with anyone in any manner. It is a truly evil thing. They are all my responsibility. I will not abandon them. But I will not lie for them or to them. > > I will attempt to remedy this horror by fate and/or carrying it quietly to my grave.